• Olaudah Equiano: Black History Month – Day 1

    Oct 6, 2025
    Black History Month (UK)
    Olaudah Equiano: Black History Month – Day 1

    Olaudah Equiano (c.1745–1797), also known as Gustavus Vassa, was an abolitionist and writer whose autobiography The Interesting Narrative (1789) became the first internationally popular enslaved narrative. Captured in Nigeria at age 11, he was enslaved, transported across the Atlantic, and later bought his freedom in 1766. Settling in England, Equiano became a leading voice in the campaign to end the transatlantic slave trade, sharing his personal testimony to expose its brutality. His life and work not only fueled abolitionist efforts but also highlighted themes of resilience, identity, and justice that continue to resonate today.

    Reference: Britannica

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  • When You Finally Found Your Voice (Reloaded)

    Aug 31, 2025
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    When You Finally Found Your Voice (Reloaded)

    Finding my voice was never easy—it felt like a battle with unseen forces. But I’ve learned to speak, to feel, to express. My voice, once a whisper, now echoes with truth, healing, and undeniable strength.

    When You Finally Found Your Voice

    Enjoy!

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  • Like Nike: Just Do it! (Reloaded)

    Aug 24, 2025
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    Like Nike: Just Do it! (Reloaded)

    Becoming a doer took deep introspection and consistent effort. I had to face fear, learn patience, and lean on my support system. Now, I make my list and do it, because regret weighs more than trying.

    Like Nike: Just Do it!

    Enjoy!

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  • The Other 95% (Reloaded)

    Aug 17, 2025
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    The Other 95% (Reloaded)

    Explore The Other 95%

    What if your fear of starting stems from knowing you’ll succeed beyond your wildest dreams? You weren’t meant for mediocrity. Believe in your power, explore your growth, and create the magic within you.

    The Other 95%

    Enjoy!

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  • The Beginning Is A Good Place To Start (Reloaded)

    Aug 10, 2025
    Blogs Reloaded
    The Beginning Is A Good Place To Start (Reloaded)

    This is a moment to enjoy all the OG blogs without scrolling to the very beginning. The first blog is about how I started writing, and then transitioned from poetry to writing this blog.

    The Beginning Is A Good Place To Start

    ~ Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit


    Enjoy!

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  • My Journey to Emotional Freedom from People-Pleasing

    Aug 8, 2025
    Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit, Daily Thoughts
    My Journey to Emotional Freedom from People-Pleasing

    Have I grown or have I GROWN???

    Over the last few months, I have been engaging in thorough introspection. I examine the various aspects of my life and determine what I need to improve, what can remain as is for now, and what I need to improve significantly.

    One thing I noticed was my lack of boundaries. How I was able to identify that was through a coaching session when she said,

    You are advanced in your journey; all of the problems you stated have one central route. The only thing you need to work on is your tendency to be overly people-pleasing. That means you need to start setting and maintaining boundaries.

    This conversation wasn’t a shock to me because, at the time, I was a chronic people pleaser. 

    • I would go out of my way to check for persons, even when my cup was empty.
    • I would say yes to so many things, and I would experience major burnout or extreme discomfort.
    • I would allow people to say hurtful things to me and say absolutely NOTHING, even though I felt so sad on the inside.

    There are many more, but I will focus on these three for now.

    I was aware of the term’ people-pleasing,’ but I now needed to understand the concept of boundaries to improve fully. So far, I am a work in progress, and I am loving the progress. Stay tuned for more updates on my boundary journey.

    Are you a people-pleaser and/or do you lack boundaries? Let me know.

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  • Unlearning Who They Said I Was

    Aug 7, 2025
    Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit, Daily Thoughts
    Unlearning Who They Said I Was

    I am open to experiencing change so I can grow into the person I want to be.

    ~ Dara L Pierre

    There was a point in my life where I held on to a version of myself that others had given to me. This version of myself was defined by the labels others gave me, whether through family or in the community. I accepted it because I thought I had no other choice; no one in my environment encouraged me to challenge these thoughts. When anything was questioned, there was often some sort of punishment or shame. Along the way, I felt misaligned and confused. I had enjoyed certain activities, but I felt ashamed and hid because they weren’t what was expected of me. 

    It is challenging to let go of a specific aspect of yourself when you are confined to a particular environment. Once I left that environment, I had a mini crisis because I had a new set of beliefs being told to me from a different community that contradicted all the things I had heard and believed growing up. With all of the labels I had heard about myself, I now needed to make sense of them. That meant I had to learn about myself through my perspective to figure out what is true, what is not, or what falls somewhere in the middle. 

    So far, the process has been good, but every day I learn and figure out new things about myself. I am happy I decided to learn about myself by asking myself. Taking this personal journey has shown me that I am much more resilient than I once thought. I am a gentle and curious soul, and I am eager to continue this journey to see where it takes me.

    If you ever feel stuck, it may be a sign for you to learn about yourself through your lens. Happy Searching!!

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  • From Fear to Confidence: My Journey Through Six Years of Blogging and Self-Discovery

    Aug 6, 2025
    Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit, Special Reflections
    From Fear to Confidence: My Journey Through Six Years of Blogging and Self-Discovery

    Six years ago today, I published my first blog post, “The Beginning is a Good Place To Start.” That day, I decided to publish despite all the fears, worries and doubts that suggested I do otherwise.

    I was worried about being too vulnerable and sharing too much online. Sharing about my thoughts and emotions was something new to me. I was conditioned to be quiet and be a bystander in all aspects of my life. Living life that way no longer appealed to me. I saw testimonials from people who decided to pursue their goals despite feeling fear, so I decided to join that trend. I wrote and edited the inaugural piece so many times that it became mentally draining, and I eventually had to click ‘publish’ because I grew tired of revising it.

    When I shared, I received a lot of positive feedback about how my writing made them feel. Others read anonymously only to bring it up in conversation months later. I transitioned from enjoying publishing pieces to feeling the pressure to meet deadlines as a result of my success. Then, I missed one post, and, being consumed by the delusion of perfectionism, I took an extended break from posting. This happened multiple times over the past six years, and every time I resumed the writing, I was welcomed with open arms. This only made me realise I was the only one being hard on myself.

    Learning WordPress was a learning curve, one I am still encountering. I had to read numerous documents to understand how to make a website visually appealing. I spent a lot of time understanding the process of writing and posting, as well as SEOs, etc. Things have changed significantly since I last posted two years ago, but having that intrinsic motivation is pushing me to achieve my goals. I now give myself the grace to explore and discover new ways to improve my craft and set even bigger goals. With the explosion of AI, I can focus on writing and let AI handle the marketing side of publishing a post.

    Happy Anniversary to Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit and, by extension, Nomadic Contents. May we continue to thrive in all spaces because we need more jewels in the world. Thank you to everyone who has supported me since the inception; you are truly appreciated! Here is to being intentional about the outcomes in your life and planning accordingly. Here is to having confidence to share stories when scared, because if we don’t share our stories, who will?

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  • How Listening to My Intuition Changed the Way I Make Decisions

    Aug 5, 2025
    Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit, Blogs Reloaded, Daily Thoughts
    How Listening to My Intuition Changed the Way I Make Decisions

    As I get to know myself, one of the recurring themes I encounter is the importance of trusting your inner voice: your intuition, gut, or inner feeling. 

    There have been many times when I have felt uncomfortable about a situation. Still, I continued to engage with it because I didn’t understand how to validate my feelings or identify the cause or root of these emotions. 

    I have learned to process my feelings as they arise, which helps prevent the frustration that I would otherwise face.

    • I acknowledge to myself that I feel unsettled. Then I take the time to figure out the cause of these feelings. This process may take days or weeks to happen.
    • Once I figure out the root cause, I figure out what I need to do to centre myself again. This may be slightly changing my routine or expressing how I am feeling to someone. When it comes to speaking up about how the situation made me feel, I have made significant progress. I went from not addressing the situation and building up resentment to speaking up and feeling extremely uncomfortable while expressing my feelings.
    • Then I wait to see if those steps helped or if I need to engage further to reach a solution. This requires regular self-check-ins to spot the changes quickly.

    Trusting your gut is an ongoing process that leads to a point where you feel incredibly comfortable with your decisions. You can achieve this by learning about yourself through dates, journaling, reflection, or meditation. You can accomplish this by learning about yourself through activities such as dating, journaling, reflection, or meditation. You can even take it a step further and get the dating card games and play them with yourself. You would be surprised how much you learn when you take the opportunity to spend time with yourself to discover who you are as an individual.

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  • From Panic to Progress: My Ongoing Journey with Procrastination and Productivity

    Aug 4, 2025
    Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit, Daily Thoughts
    From Panic to Progress: My Ongoing Journey with Procrastination and Productivity

    As much as I advise my friends on the ills of procrastination, I, too, fall victim to it. Even though I know I will regret the outcome of waiting until the very end, I do it later because I can. It all started in primary school when it took me little to no time to complete an assignment. It didn’t need much effort, so why bother? These assignments would require reading the assigned textbook to get the answer.

    There were times when I would start earlier than expected, usually for a group project or when I had to use the library’s books. In moments when I had to use external resources, I would be more invested in starting and finishing on time, but when it was just me, I would drag it out until the very end.

    The practice remained unflawed in secondary school and community college. Looking back, I can admit that the practice was somewhat flawed; I rushed through my submissions and didn’t achieve the results I wanted. However, I wasn’t fully invested in my work because I didn’t feel comfortable with the teaching structure.

    I started my BSc programme in good standing, taking the time to thoughtfully complete the submissions for which I received A’s. I consistently handed in the assignments on time for the courses I enjoyed. However, I fell into the pattern of procrastination because I became cocky and bored, and developed the habit of doing the bare minimum. These were for my core courses; I always calculated the risk of handing it in close to the deadline, and if the risk were low, I would proceed. There were times when the plan backfired, and I submitted it late, but this happened closer to the end of my programme.

    Now that I am completing my PhD, I often feel tempted to procrastinate until the very end. However, it is no longer feasible due to the considerable effort required to complete it. I reflected on the root causes so that I could either stop completely or find ways to stay on track with my deadlines without feeling extremely overwhelmed. The main reason I discovered was imposter syndrome; I don’t feel confident when it comes to explaining the theory. I slowly overcame this feeling by dedicating time daily to reading the literature. Before I incorporated this strategy, I waited until the last minute as I thought the panic of the deadline would outweigh the feeling of imposter syndrome. This strategy proved effective for small projects, but it also generated a significant amount of anxiety around finishing, which led to a creative block.

    For larger projects, I use mantras to remind myself of my accomplishments. I would find myself repeating it hourly to keep going. My commitment to personal development will forever keep me outside my comfort zone, so I need to remind myself to keep going. I also found that working through the doubts helps; I focus on subtasks to not overwhelm myself. Finally, I realised that I work best when there is an accountability group. I often attend the writing retreats at my university.

    I hope you are overcoming procrastination to become your best self. What are your strategies? You can leave them in the comments below.

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  • How Planning Transforms Execution

    Aug 3, 2025
    Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit, Daily Thoughts
    How Planning Transforms Execution

    Although the execution of the goal or task is essential, consideration of the preparation required for the goal or task should also be noted. The execution is a significant milestone as you transition from an idea to something more tangible and concrete. However, preparation improves the outcome of the goal or task because you have considered the most effective and efficient way to achieve it.

    Case 1:

    During the weeks when I plan my experiments for my PhD, I accomplish a great deal and often exceed my initial goals. On the days when I decide to free-style it, I feel unproductive and oftentimes I don’t get as much done.

    Case 2:

    A couple of weeks ago, I decided to start a 3-day water fast on a whim. Throughout the three days, I felt like I was suffering and I had the urge to quit regularly. It wasn’t as pleasurable an experience as the ones I had completed in my previous fasts. I finished the fast and gained valuable insights about the experience and the trajectory of my life.

    Now, I am planning to embark on another fast and I am taking the preparation as seriously. A week ago, I started mentally preparing myself, and now I feel excited about starting. I bulk-bought all the fruits and vegetables I needed, and I batch-prepared to make it easier during the week. 

    So next time you are thinking about executing a goal, take some time to plan your experience to improve the outcome. Your future self will thank you.

    Starting tomorrow, I will begin a five-day fast. If you are interested in reading about my journey, subscribe to get the posts first-hand. 

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  • Redefining Peace: Healing Beyond the Noise of Survival

    Aug 2, 2025
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    Redefining Peace: Healing Beyond the Noise of Survival

    Now that I am in my 30s, I value peace so much more. It took me a while to consider peace as a good thing. I grew up seeing the hustle culture, being told that the only way to succeed is to work without end. Come to think of it, I don’t think I saw any of my elders resting aside from regular nights’ sleep. If you feel physical rest was bad, mental rest was worse. Worrying was normalised, and they were constantly in survival mode. That truly negatively impacts the mind and body over time. 

    Growing up, everything felt loud; there was not much time to think and internalise your thoughts unless it was before bed. For me, I constantly experienced loud speaking, loud talking, loud egos. If compliments were given, they didn’t feel genuine, and people were ridiculed for making an effort or trying to improve themselves. It didn’t felt very clear because even though it didn’t feel right, that experience was normalised.

    About nine years ago, I felt the need to let go of this internal battle. I made time to reflect on my actions, reactions and behaviours and how my childhood may have impacted my current thinking. I explored therapy and spoke about things that felt normal to suppress and ignore. Then, with time, I started to realise the joy of having peace. I didn’t worry about situations, I stopped taking things personally, and if someone didn’t like me, I began to be okay with their opinion of me. The most important thing was that I unconditionally loved myself and saw the beauty I had to offer in the world. 

    There are so many more things I have done, and I will aim to explore them later. It has not been an easy road, and I have gone off path so many times (so many times). However, it is essential to persevere if this is something fundamental. Knowing peace was paramount, so I made the effort to keep going. I am sure if you want peace, you can do it too!

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  • Prune to Grow: What My Spider Plant Taught Me

    Aug 1, 2025
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    Prune to Grow: What My Spider Plant Taught Me

    Today, I was offering a self-care regimen to one of my massive spider plants; I was removing the dead leaves that had gathered from the parent plant and its babies. As you know, if spider plants are allowed to keep growing, they can produce a significant number of babies, and this was the case in my situation. I was unable to keep up with pruning and repotting, so many babies are still attached to the plant.

    I thought about how often we hold on to situations for longer than necessary, to the point where they no longer serve us, and we begin to lose ourselves. Just as plants cut off access to leaves or branches that may hinder essential growth, we as humans need to let go to facilitate new development in our lives.

    Change feels scary because it takes us into an unknown territory. Our brain has to relearn how to reach a place of comfort again. None of this is physiologically bad; it has been taught to us in specific spaces that it is not necessarily a good thing. People focus so much on the ending of a situation that they don’t realise that a beginning follows soon after. 

    Let us take care of our situation and start making room for growth in your life.

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  • What You’re Not Changing, You’re Choosing

    Jul 31, 2025
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    What You’re Not Changing, You’re Choosing

    I came across a video of an interview where a person was asked to share their favourite quote. She said, 

    “what you’re not changing, you’re choosing.”

    As simple as it sounded, it was highly impactful. 

    I instantly thought about all the times I chose to complain about my current situation because I felt powerless, or how I decided to stay in situations because I thought that this reality was my only option.

    However, I was brainwashed by the illusion of a lack of power. I saw repeatedly how people gave up their power because life felt challenging. I saw how people in my immediate environment were constantly complaining about their situations. This trait eventually became a learned behaviour of mine, and eventually my identity since childhood.

    Within the past eight years, I became more mindful of what I consumed, and I gradually changed my environment and mindset. From this shift, I learned that I am ALWAYS in control of my life and responsible for the decisions that affect me. As much as your life is entangled with other persons, the decision you make directly or indirectly affects others. Suppose I don’t like a particular situation or opportunity; I have the power to change the outcome by removing myself or by creating and maintaining boundaries to stay true to my values. 

    Learning this lesson now, I can strive to transform my present into a reality that nurtures my best self, which will, in turn, ripple into my future. Being aware of this knowledge makes me powerful because I know that everything that I could dream of is within my reach. “I can’t” no longer exists in my vocabulary. It is not always possible for me now, but I will find a way to make it work. With the ease of access to information, it is incredibly likely to get what you desire with consistency. 

    Let’s release the limiting mindsets that no longer serve us and opt for a mental shift to become our best selves. 

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  • Why Mindset Matters: The Power of Gratitude, Self-Awareness, and Intentional Living

    Jul 30, 2025
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    Why Mindset Matters: The Power of Gratitude, Self-Awareness, and Intentional Living

    Life has shown me that the key to having a great life is all about your perspective towards it. What you believe has a significant impact on what is manifested in your life. If you constantly think that your life is lacking, then you condition your brain to believe these thoughts. As a result, all the experiences and opportunities you encounter will appear to be bad.

    Repeated experiences put your body in fight-or-flight (survival) mode. Those memories become ingrained in your mind, becoming core memories, which further contribute to the cycle of thinking your life is bad. Additionally, if you habitually compare your life to what is seen on social media and find yourself on the short end of the stick, this further contributes to the feeling of low self-worth. Comparison is truly the thief of joy.

    On the other hand, adopting a gratitude mindset can positively change your perspective. You will notice your richness (richness isn’t only confined to financial abundance) and how happy you will become. Even when things don’t come out as planned, this can be used as a learning opportunity to improve yourself. Plus, when you are rooted in gratitude, you will notice how opportunities that align with your values seem to become more accessible to you.

    Knowing your values and strategising your life makes it easier to seize opportunities. You need to know what you want to achieve to chase those goals. No matter how stuck you feel, remember that you are the author of your existence and responsible for the outcomes in your life. Even if you remained silent in the decision-making process (out of fear or guilt), you made a decision, even though it was indirect. 

    So, next time, make the effort to actively decide what you want in your life and be grateful for it. Even if your life isn’t where you want it to be, you have the choice to change!

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  • The Hardest Truth

    Jul 30, 2025
    Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit, Special Reflections, Written Thoughts
    The Hardest Truth

    As accomplished as I consider myself, I have a horrible habit of not finishing things I start simply because I don’t want them to end. I hated having to part with situations that brought me joy. Joy felt scarce in my life, so I would hold to anything even though it had the unintended consequence of stagnation.

    I would always prolong reaching the endings of TV shows or books I read. When I started, it was an instant love. I often select these things based on vibes. I hope to get highly excited and rush through, then when I notice I am at the midpoint, I begin to slow down to delay the inevitable.

    My need to hoard moments to keep joy trickled into other areas of my life. As a result, I paused many of my interests indefinitely, and guilt and regret set in, causing more guilt. On the upside, I have become a jack of all trades.

    Looking back at this trait, I realised that I wasn’t only holding on to the joy, but also to unnecessary baggage. I have been my harshest critic and spared no insults. I got caught between the opinions of others and my own fears, and I got stuck. I felt so comfortable that I convinced myself to stay there longer than I needed.

    I slowly removed myself because there was a need for me to align on all aspects of my life. I am in a place where I embrace endings because I see the opportunity to create a new beginning. I have received many blessings since I decided it was time to let go, and I will have to continue reminding myself to stay on this path.

    Now that I have accomplished my goals and let go, joy has arrived and stayed. I have been dedicated to completing some courses and making an effort to incorporate more rest and exercise into my routine. I am embracing more positivity in my existence and, most importantly, learning to accept all the versions of me that have manifested within my lifetime.

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  • Overcoming Self-Sabotage for a Fulfilling Life

    Jul 29, 2025
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    Overcoming Self-Sabotage for a Fulfilling Life

    I have this idea in my mind of what I want my life to look like, but for some reason, I don’t actively pursue it because it doesn’t align with my current reality. I find myself in a constant battle between staying in my current life and transitioning to my new reality. Every time I make some progress, I feel scared that things will go wrong, or I remind myself of my inconsistencies. I know my brain is meant to protect me from danger, but it has crossed into an intense form of self-sabotage.

    I tend to focus on the future, which can cause me to forget to enjoy the present and put in the work, so that when the future arrives, I can embrace the reality of the dream I have manifested. I hope to constantly remind myself to breathe and appreciate the tiny moments along the journey, because I owe it to myself to enjoy the life I have currently. As a recovering over-thinker and self-saboteur, I need to remind myself constantly.

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  • How Fear Shapes Our Lives

    Jul 28, 2025
    Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit, Written Thoughts
    How Fear Shapes Our Lives

    I have been extremely fortunate not to have any serious physical illness, but I have been plagued with a severe condition called fear. I have allowed fear to control my life because I was raised in a society conditioned to stay within the confines of its environment and shame anyone who thinks differently. 

    As a child, I was different and confident in my uniqueness. However, growing up meant that I was constantly ridiculed for choosing to be different, to the point where I conformed for peace of mind. 

    Sticks and stones may break your bones, but words will fundamentally restructure a child’s view of life. All I saw were people living in fear, so I became one of them, too.

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  • Overcoming Perfectionism to Find Your Best Self

    Jul 27, 2025
    Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit, Written Thoughts
    Overcoming Perfectionism to Find Your Best Self

    I often compared myself to others and scolded myself for not doing enough. I felt as if I was existing while others got lucky. These thoughts came from a person who didn’t put in the work and thought blessings appeared due to pure luck. 

    When I started to take stock of my life, it dawned on me that I wasn’t solely lucky. I put in the work to achieve the accomplishments that I earned in my life. I have been lacking in praising myself, so I chose to ignore the effort. I decided to emphasise my flaws rather than cherishing my beautiful traits. 

    I am now learning to observe others and celebrate their achievements, and by extension, do the same for myself. I have been striving for perfection, and it has been draining me. Now, I’ll strive to become my best self, and I know that I can only grow from here.

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  • Finding Closure: The Power of Communication

    Jul 27, 2025
    Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit, Special Reflections
    Finding Closure: The Power of Communication

    Sometimes I lie awake thinking about all the things I should have done, and in a burst of courage, I attempt to follow through on the items I missed out on doing.

    For instance, I decided to reach out to someone to ask why they made a particular decision. Their decision affected me, and I convinced myself to ask to get peace of mind. I thought I would feel completely horrible about myself.

    However, when hearing it, I got the closure I needed. I was so wrapped up in my thoughts that I failed to see my growth in this situation. I needed to let go in order to be my best self, and I appreciate being aware enough to notice that.

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  • Breaking the Cycle of Comfort for Growth

    Jul 27, 2025
    Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit, Written Thoughts
    Breaking the Cycle of Comfort for Growth

    To grow, we must do the things that scare us. However, because it causes us to be in an uncomfortable state, we avoid it. Now, we are in this vicious cycle until the unhappiness and discomfort outweigh the fear and routine we have in our lives.

    It is fun to avoid and go along with the routine of daily life, but signs pop up to remind us that we are deserving of a lot more. You seem to find the motivational videos on social media, and you have friends who remind you of your accomplishments. But still, that voice keeps whispering to you to move out of that cycle.

    I am at this stage, and I know I need to move, but figuring out how to do all of that while trying to function feels like a lot of pressure. I feel like there is little to no time in the day, and I lack support. I need that village I was promised as a child; I am in my second wave of growing up. I know it feels hard, but I will get there and surpass my expectations. Until then, I’ll feel all the emotions associated with this journey.

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  • Finding Positivity in Unexpected Situations

    Jul 27, 2025
    Blogfessions of a Millennial Worker Bee, Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit
    Finding Positivity in Unexpected Situations

    Sometimes I find myself planning so much that when something unexpected occurs, I need to pause and recalibrate. In the past, I would quickly focus on the negatives of the situation. However, recently, I have been changing my outlook. First, I consider my blessings, then I reflect on the situation I am being protected from. I no longer dwell on the negatives, as I recognise that every ‘no’ I received has led to the redirection I needed. It is so easy to get caught up in rigid planning, but there must be openness to let life guide us because things become more interesting when I loosen my grip a little.

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  • Building Resilience During Your Ph.D. Studies

    Jul 27, 2025
    Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit, Written Thoughts
    Building Resilience During Your Ph.D. Studies

    I decided to pursue a Ph.D. While there are many accolades that come with achieving such a goal, there are also challenges. Completing the degree demands mental resilience. Resilience for undertaking research-related aims, as well as the doubt that constantly lingers with me. I consider myself highly ambitious, and I have achieved quite a lot in my short professional career. Nevertheless, every day, some doubts creep into my mind.

    Everyone I speak to shares the same feelings, so I feel a bit better knowing it’s part of the process of improving my skills. I decided that instead of worrying, I would accept these feelings and focus on developing strategies to move forward despite them. Some days, my approaches work perfectly; other days, I need a day in bed to spiral. Still, I eventually get back to the task. I have learned that it’s okay to feel doubt while pursuing your goals; it only becomes a problem when you let it control the story.

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  • Navigating Confidence Challenges in Your Career

    Jul 27, 2025
    Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit, Written Thoughts
    Navigating Confidence Challenges in Your Career

    Recently, I found myself acutely aware of how nervous I was about completing big tasks. I was constantly second-guessing myself to the point where I would question my judgement. I saw that I was diminishing myself in meetings. When I heard myself, I didn’t feel confident in myself about the role I had earned. I noticed how I yoyoed in confidence and over-explained to ensure that my point was understood. The meeting attendees seem to agree with me, so I appear to have made good points. Then I realised I had stepped into this role about a month ago, and I was responsible for delivering on my first project. I was learning and improving, so I would always be in a space where it felt uncomfortable. As long as I was committed to learning, the space would feel comfortable and I would feel confident about what I was doing. I needed to commit to staying until it began to feel relaxed, and I could see how much I was thriving.

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  • Reconnecting with Myself Through Fasting

    Jul 27, 2025
    Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit, Daily Thoughts
    Reconnecting with Myself Through Fasting

    Two weeks ago today, I decided to start a water fast.

    I was feeling out of alignment, so I wanted to complete a water fast for three days. I wasn’t allowed to eat any solid food; just drink tea, water or flavoured water.

    I usually don’t eat breakfast, so navigating through the morning wasn’t hard. However, as my usual lunchtime approached, my body started to feel weak, and I became grumpy. My energy was low, and the energy I brought with me to every interaction was also low. I survived the entire day due to a busy lab day. When I got home, I went straight to bed to avoid breaking the fast.

    The second day, I felt better and was more productive. It was also because I had slept for over twelve hours. It was easy to get through the day, and after work, I had more energy to stay awake. I felt the urge to eat, but I resisted it. I stayed up, meditated, and listened as my body spoke to me. I was able to ignore some of the noise and focus for a bit.

    The third day was upon me, and it felt the hardest. I thought about giving up so many times, but I pushed myself. I thought about all the times I gave up on myself and decided I wasn’t going to do it again. I arrived at work and powered through the day, knowing I had a big celebration ahead – my first successful three-day water fast. I got the job done and came to celebrate by drinking water and eating some nuts.

    Since I did the fast, I felt more in alignment with myself. I became more aware of the things I needed to reconnect with and let go of in my life. I returned to writing for leisure and enjoyed writing again for school. I honed in on self-care, rest, and loving myself unconditionally. It was time to redefine my goals and let go of the people and opportunities that no longer aligned with me.

    This stage is the overlap between the end of one season and the beginning of the next. I feel stuck because I need to determine which tools I need to start my new season. I am navigating so much that I need to select the tools that will help me progress. Being aware and feeling confused is an interesting place to be, but I am loving every minute of this journey.

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  • Finding Freedom Through Writing: My Personal Journey

    Jul 27, 2025
    Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit, Daily Thoughts
    Finding Freedom Through Writing: My Personal Journey

    I realised that when the time is right, you will be reconnected with the people or opportunity that will help you grow.

    I stopped writing for leisure when I started my PhD because I was writing at work, and I felt tapped out at the end of the day. However, as I grew into my programme and I started to figure out what I really wanted, it turned out that I want to write.

    I dreamed about writing, I thought about writing, and when my brain felt like it was about to explode…I wrote to get myself back to earth again. I always felt scared when it came to writing because it brought me closer to my feelings. Back then, running away from a deep dive felt like the easier option than facing the emotions that I had grown so great at suppressing.

    Writing would set me free. I’ve reached the point where I want to transcend to the next stage in my life. It’s time for me to put my adulting hat on and achieve greatness. So consider this as my re-introduction to my daily thoughts.

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  • The Stress Delusion

    May 11, 2023
    Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit, Daily Thoughts
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    Most of the things we stress about don’t exist outside our heads. Most of the things we ignore are the things we should care about but it is easier to exist in a world of distractions than to introspect. Taking the time to listen to our mind, body and soul makes life so much richer. In turn, we don’t have to stress which removes the cycle of worrying (about irrelevant things).

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  • The Impact of Self-Disappointment on Growth

    May 11, 2023
    Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit, Daily Thoughts
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    Being accountable to yourself ensures consistency in the growth you seek. Imagine a time someone has disappointed you versus when you have disappointed yourself. Why did the response change between persons? Procrastination suggests that hurting yourself is normal, and change requires a commitment that you may not be ready to face. Have you ever wondered why it is so easy for others to hurt you? Perhaps one reason is that you enable mediocrity in yourself, making it a familiar feeling.

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  • Why Is It So Hard to Let Go? Questions for Healing and Self-Forgiveness

    May 9, 2023
    Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit, Daily Thoughts
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    Take a moment to think about everything you have been through. Do you believe that you can change or do you know it? Can you forgive yourself for all you’ve clung to when you knew it was time to let go? If yes, why do you live in regret and resentment? Why is it so hard to let go? Why is it so easy to romanticise others and demonise yourself? These are some of the questions you ask yourself when you are trying to heal/grow/evolve. Putting in the work is hard when you see others enjoying themselves. When I feel like giving up, I think about what my mother would ask me, if you see your friends jumping off a cliff, will you jump off too?

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  • It’s Only Up From Here: The Real Reward of Investing in Your Health

    May 8, 2023
    Blogfessions of a Nomadic Spirit, Daily Thoughts
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    Today, I looked back at where I was a couple of years ago and now, and all I have left is pride. I put aside my ego and denial and made an effort to put in the work, and I’m doing it. Making a promise to myself and keeping it shows how much I respect and care about myself. I had to put in the work for myself, just as I do in other areas of my life. Without my holistic health, who would I be? I am seeing the improvements, and it is only up from here.

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