Take a moment to think about everything you have been through. Do you believe that you can change or do you know it? Can you forgive yourself for all you’ve clung to when you knew it was time to let go? If yes, why do you live in regret and resentment? Why is it so hard to let go? Why is it so easy to romanticise others and demonise yourself? These are some of the questions you ask yourself when you are trying to heal/grow/evolve. Putting in the work is hard when you see others enjoying themselves. When I feel like giving up, I think about what my mother would ask me, if you see your friends jumping off a cliff, will you jump off too?